You are meant for GREATNESS!
You have goals and dreams and a desire to create success in this life for the benefit of yourself, and the people around you.
You’re willing to do what it takes to accomplish your goals. You’re not afraid of hard work and you’re more than willing to go the extra mile.
You know EXACTLY what you want and where you want to end up…
The problem is… you’re not quite sure how to get there.
I know the exact steps you need to follow to transform your vision into reality, regardless of where you currently are, and where you’d like to eventually get to.
YOU CAN DREAM ABOUT WHAT’S POSSIBLE OR YOU CAN DO WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.
LET ME HELP YOU GET THERE!
Hello, I’m Joy Fejoku, your personal HABIT HACKER!
Our Habit Bliss motto is:
You can have anything you want in this life, so long as you have the habits to support that vision.
You can have your dream career while being a happy wife and mother…
You can earn the income you desire and still have time to travel and live life on your terms…
In order to make life work on this level, however, there are some things you need to understand, deeply…
…and some other things you need to do, consistently.
That’s where I come in.
My passion is research, my gift is intuition and my skill is integration – putting it all together.
I’m a strategic planner with a talent for creating simple. yet effective, and efficient systems for my clients.
WHAT THIS MEANS TO YOU
I know how to devise a plan that empowers your ability to create and maintain successful personal relationships.
I know how to help you develop and nurture leadership traits that supercharge your ability to climb the corporate ladder.
I can help you BE who you need to be and DO what you need to do so you can HAVE exactly what you desire.
I am equal parts analytical and creative, by nature. This gives me the ability to critically dissect issues with full understanding, then creatively problem-solve for answers using out-of-the-box thinking.
In other words…
I can take your real-world problems and use my well-researched, well-tested information, plus my analysis of available facts and problem-solving skills to design a creative and effective solution just for you.
HOW I GOT HERE – BLINDED BY THE DARKNESS…
I’ve had a lifelong fascination with personal growth – as a concept and a way of life.
However, my own journey of personal growth and development was born out of necessity…
For me, adulthood came with pain and struggle. This pain and struggle would shape my life for years and foster a need to pursue healing through a path of self-knowledge and, ultimately, self-mastery.
Even in my darkest hours, I appeared happy, well-adjusted, and strong in public.
But I was suffering…
Depression can be an interesting thing… It doesn’t always show up so easily on the faces of family and friends. Sometimes the people that laugh the hardest and seem the happiest go home at night and cry themselves to sleep.
I felt completely alone…
Avoidance, escapism, and emotional numbing were my drugs of choice for temporary relief from the pain I felt.
These emotions, this behavior affected every area of my life: career, dating, friends, and family… everything.
And I lived like this for years.
I was in survival mode.
The true stress I experienced during this time of my life took a long time to fully grasp. What I was aware of, however, was that I was in a state of deep and persistent situational depression. I felt completely stuck.
I felt like a victim.
I felt like bad things only happened to me…
It felt as though life, itself, was conspiring against me…
A NEW ME
It all came to a crashing halt when I hit rock bottom.
Have you ever thought to yourself, ‘Do I really want to be here?’
Have you ever prayed to God to take the pain away? To just end it all, if He won’t change it?
And let me tell you, it’s one of the most clarifying things that can ever happen to you.
I spent countless nights in bed… crying and praying, praying and crying for something to change in my life.
I KNEW what I wanted, but I had NO IDEA HOW TO GET IT.
And you know what? Those moments spent in bed crying and praying were not wasted…
~ It was there I found my strength.
~ It was there I found my ability to commit and persist.
~ It was there I found my willingness to humbly learn… to stay patient and to trust…
The decision I made in those moments was to LIVE, BUT DIFFERENTLY…
This led me down a path of self-discovery. Eventually, I created what would become my first program: a 30-day process to reset and recondition my mind and emotional state.
This process was an eye-opener. For years – I attended seminars, read books, and watched videos that promoted self-help and personal development. And for years I remained in the same place mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and in reality. My knowledge of personal development principles didn’t translate to actual change in my life.
What did help was engaging in the process of deliberate and conscious change. Creating experiences that recondition the mind, body. spirit – naturally – as a result of directed focused energy towards the execution of new mental and behavioral patterns for extended periods of time.
- I went from a depressive default state to one of gratitude and joy.
- I went from having an inner critic as my constant companion to an inner cheerleader.
- I went from a victim mindset to an empowered mindset.
I was able to experience these results in 30 days. Not only that, but these results were permanent. I never struggled with these particular issues again. Once I reached a certain level of integration, the results perpetuated themselves, without additional effort from me.
THE POWER OF BUILDING GOOD HABITS
What I learned from my 30-day journey was the power of conditioning. The power that LIVES IN the the process of conditioning…
And I wanted to know more…
What was the difference between the version of me that wanted to change but couldn’t achieve that change, and the version of me that was able to… simply change?
Was I the difference or was the process different?
Was I different or did I do something different?
I was so curious!
Since that moment I’ve dedicated my life to understanding this process:
How and why it works…
What it consists of…
How to deliberately and effectively apply it…
… and what are its limits.
MY WORK | MY PASSION
While my journey wasn’t the easiest, it was quite valuable. Everything I’ve experienced in my life – the good, the bad, the ugly – has led me to this point.
Through years of research and study… Through years of self-application and integration, as well as working with my clients to create similar results, I’ve been able to extract, understand, and systemize a process that creates powerful change at a core level by focusing on habit development.
WHAT MY EXPERIENCE MEANS FOR YOU
I have an extensive amount of knowledge in the area of habit development. I also have considerable personal and professional experience in getting results for myself and others.
Whether you’re struggling to rid yourself of a nasty little habit like procrastination, or you seek a reprieve from the mental torment of negative thinking, I can help you.
Whether you’d like to develop positive habits around time-management or build the determination to write the book and become the author you’ve always dreamed of becoming, I can help you.
I promote habit development strategies that work. I’m passionate about working with my clients to condition their mind, body, and emotions in a way that creates effective change and positive results. I can’t think of a better use of my skills, talents, and experience.
Looking back on my life, I only wish the 22-year-old version of me had someone in my life who knew this information to show me HOW to create the type of change I so deperately wanted to see in my life.
My personal struggle was purposeful. That struggle has given me the ability to help countless people reach their goals and overcome their obstacles because I’ve been there, too. I understand what it feels like to feel completely vulnerable to the circumstances around you. I also know what it feels like to know your power and your awesome ability to create massive change in your life, simply because you decide to…
That’s the power of self-mastery.
Focusing on habit development can get you there.
…and I can help with that.
I am passionately committed to helping people turn their personal challenges into their personal triumphs. Creating real change is not impossible and it doesn’t have to be difficult. I can help you create a plan to master your process and reach goals.
– whether you’d like to transform self-criticism into self-love…
– whether you want to learn how to nurture to skills of self-discipline and persistence as a foundation for a life of personal achievement…
I provide purposeful critique and analysis, time-tested, step-by-step action plans, practical tips and personal accountability.
I know how to help you reach your goals.
Let me be your partner in progress and conscious transformation!
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